Don’t Be A Cry Baby!
Babies cry as a form of communication because they are not capable of articulating their need, want, or desire. When a baby cries, an adult runs to the rescue and attempt to discover the reason for the cry. Perhaps the baby is hungry, sleepy, ill, or need a change of clothes. The adult will assume the responsibility for the wellbeing of the child and his/her satisfaction. The baby is incapable of taking care of him/herself.
As an adult it is alarming witnessing another adult putting on a show of whining, complaining, and temper tantrums. The sadness is the adult that is behaving as a baby, expect for other adults to run to their rescue and attempt to figure out what’s the matter and give and apply a solution. They complain about not having enough money, whine about being in a bad marriage, cry about being single, whimper about bills, and groan about life in general. This behavior from an adult is totally unacceptable. If you do not like the life that you have; change it! “When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways.” I Corinthians 13:11
As an adult not only are you capable of articulating your desire, but you are also capable of seeking and applying a solution. Whining, complaining, and whimpering will not produce anything of significance. If you are constantly whining, complaining, and whimpering to other adults, eventually it will become bothersome and intolerable. No one wants to be around a cry baby. Problems will arise but it’s how you handle the problem that will reveal your character. Please do not blame others for your position in life. Take accountability and responsibility for where you are and begin to take moderate measures to change your situation. Adult cry babies are truly undesirable. Again, no one wants to be around cry babies.
Latrina SAM Johnson is a Christian Empowerment Life Coach, Author, Professional Speaker, and founder of Speaking Above Mediocrity Empowerment Consulting Firm based in Atlanta, GA. All interested in having Latrina as your Christian Empowerment Coach or your Keynote Speaker, may contact her at coachmeSAM@ymail.com
Latrina speaks at churches, meetings, conferences, conventions, and for various club organizations.
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